Feeling a little bit drained today? Maybe you didn’t get the best night’s sleep last night.
It’s an all too common problem, and one that can have serious implications for your health and wellbeing if you’re consistently not getting enough sleep.
Whether it’s stress and anxiety, a noisy bed-mate, or too much light that’s keeping you up – it’s important to find ways to help improve your sleep. There are so many things you can try.
Sleep expert and bestselling author Dr Neil Stanley, an independent sleep expert and bestselling author has teamed up with luxury sleep brand Piglet in Bed to share his top tips for getting a restful night.
Read on for 27 simple tricks to try tonight:
1. Your bedroom needs to be dark
‘Darkness is essential for sleep; even small amounts of light can be disruptive to sleep and the lighter your bedroom, the worse the problem,’ says Dr Stanley.
‘Make sure you cover up internal light sources and manage external sources by either installing blackout blinds or heavy lined curtains. it that is not possible, then consider using an eye mask.’
2. Have a fixed wake-up time every day of the week
Neil says the most important aspect of waking refreshed is having a set wake-up time seven days a week.
‘Your body and brain start preparing to wake up approximately 90 minutes before you actually do, so if you have a fixed wake up time, the body and brain know when they are going to wake and can thus prepare accordingly.’
3. You have to have a ‘quiet mind’ to achieve good sleep
The number one prerequisite for getting to sleep is a quiet mind. Neil says you can’t fall asleep if your mind is whirring with worries about the day.
‘The first thing to do is to put the day to bed a couple of hours before you go to bed, so after this time, don’t open the gas bill, check your work email or have a heated political discussion with your partner,’ he says.
4. The bedroom needs to be cool
Many experts say the ideal temperature for the bedroom is 16-18 degrees, although Dr Stanley says this a matter of personal preference.
‘However, it is not just the room temperature that is important for getting a good night’s sleep,’ he adds. ‘The temperature in your immediate sleeping environment, i.e. under the duvet, is equally important and should be close to a thermo-neutral temperature (approx. 29 degrees); however, you are just one big fleshy hot water bottle, so you will heat the space to this temperature just by being in bed.
‘During the night, the body needs to lose heat and this is done mainly through the head and face, the only bits that usually stick out from under the duvet, and thus a cool bedroom facilitates this heat loss.
‘However, if the room is too hot or you are too hot under the duvet, it is more difficult for the body to lose heat and this will cause disturbed sleep.
‘The same is also true if you are too cold, as this means the body has to work hard to maintain its optimal temperature and again, this can disturb sleep.’
5. Recognise if you are a ‘lark’ or an ‘owl’
‘It is not only the quality and quantity of sleep that is important to wake up feeling refreshed; it is also the timing, but some people are also naturally morning people and some are evening people.’
Dr Stanley says this is, to a large extent, genetically determined.
‘Suppose you are an evening person and you wake up before your natural propensity to wake. In that case, you may experience “sleep inertia”, that feeling of grogginess, for between 15 minutes and 2 hours after waking.’
6. Get the right amount of sleep for you
‘Sleep need is individual, like height or shoe size; anywhere between 4-11 hours can be considered normal, although what is important is that you get the right amount of sleep for you,’ says Dr Stanley.
‘Your sleep need is genetically determined, so; if you are a 9 hour a night person, you need to endeavour to get 9 hours. Also, if you are naturally a 4 hour a night person, you will be wasting your time if you are trying to get what you have been lead to believe is the ideal 8 hours a night.’
However, he says there is a big difference between getting 4 hours sleep a night and actually needing only 4 hours.
‘Therefore what is important is that you get the right amount of sleep. Simply, if you feel awake and function at a high level during the day, you are probably getting enough sleep, but if you feel sleepy the next day, you are not.’
7. Drinking too much – of any beverage -can lead to disturbed sleep
Drinking to much might wake us up more because we will need to go to the loo in the middle of the night.
‘As we get older, the more prevalent are these night-time awakenings, so restrict the amount of fluids taken for about an hour or so before bedtime and make sure that you empty your bladder one last time before switching the light out,’ he says.
‘If the symptoms persist or you start getting up more than once a night to urinate it would be wise to talk to you doctor.’
8. Avoid too much alcohol before bed
‘Alcohol works on the same receptors as sleeping tablets, so it will help put you to sleep; the problems come later in the night; the headache caused by dehydration, the need to visit the bathroom and the disturbed and restless sleep because of feeling hot as you are burning off all the calories.
‘However, a small sherry before bed has never done anyone any harm.’
9. When you eat can affect your sleep
Dr Stanley says a heavy meal close to bedtime may make you less comfortable when you settle down for your night’s rest.
‘A big meal will mean that your body has to burn the calories, and thus your body temperature will go up,’ he says. ‘However, to get good sleep, your body temperature actually needs to drop during the night.
‘At the same time, going to bed hungry can be just as disruptive to sleep as going to bed too full.’
10. Sunlight is the most powerful regulator of our biological clock
‘This is why we have evolved to sleep during the night and be awake during the day. If you try to sleep during the day, your sleep will be shorter and more disturbed than during the night.
‘So your bedroom should be dark when you want to sleep. Equally, you should ensure exposure to sunlight during the day.’
11. If your sleep is disrupted by noise, consider earplugs
‘Some people also find that the drone of an electric fan or relaxing music can be helpful in masking other more disruptive sounds,’ suggests Dr Stanley.
‘If you are going to use a noise app or a sound machine, ‘pink noise’ is better than white noise. Older people, because their sleep is generally lighter, may be particularly bothered by noise.’
12. Avoid blue light for 45 minutes before bed
Dr Stanely explains that blue light has been shown to suppress melatonin production.
‘Melatonin is a key signal to the body that it is time to fall asleep, so it is important to avoid exposure to blue light before lights out. ‘Paper white’ devices have also been shown to disturb sleep.’
13. Make time for sleep
‘Your sleep is vitally important to your physical, mental and emotional health; therefore, you need to make time in your life to get the sleep you need.
‘Prioritise sleep; it should not be the thing you do after everything else.’
14. The bedroom should be your sleep room
Dr Stanley says your bedroom should be devoted to sleep.
‘If you are not asleep, you should not be in your bedroom, and you should only sleep in your bedroom. It is not your office, gym, games, room or cinema.’
15. Consider separate beds/bedrooms
‘In 2005 I co-authored a paper that showed that much of your sleep disturbance is caused by your bed partner and so if they are disturbing your sleep because of snoring or fidgeting, you may want to consider separate beds or even separate bedrooms,’ says Dr Stanley.
‘If it works for you both, not sleeping together is a mature pragmatic solution to a problem and has no bearing on the strength of your relationship. Lack of “intimacy” would be much more suggestive of a problem.’
16. Don’t try to fall asleep
If you are tossing and turning for more than 30 minutes at the start of the night or 20 minutes during the night, Dr Stanley says it may be helpful to get out of bed and do something else, only going back to bed when you feel sleepy again.
‘If you wake early in the morning, it may be easier to get up and do something rather than trying to go back to sleep again.’
17. Buy an alarm clock rather than using your phone
‘Most people these days use their mobile phones as their alarm clock and co course this put the phone in the bedroom right next to the bed; thus it is a temptation to check the phone during the night or to use it before bed use the phone.’
18. Buy a big, comfortable bed
‘Sleeping in a standard double bed means two adults have less space each than a child’s bed,’ says Dr Stanley. ‘Couple this with the fact that your bed partner may fight you for the duvet, make annoying noises, toss and turn all night and you wonder why you are not sleeping well.’
So, one of the easiest ways of getting a better night’s sleep is to get a bigger bed. Choosing the bedding items for the bigger bed is the next task then. Make certain you now have the right size duvet (so, you won’t face the same problem again) and mantle it with a new duvet cover bedding set for a refreshed vibe.
Dr Stanely adds: ‘Really, the minimum size bed that two adults should sleep in, to give them the same space as their child, would be a 6ft bed. Sleep is one of the most selfish things you can do; you cannot share your sleep with anyone.’
19. Always have a pen and paper beside your bed
‘If you are worried about something, then write your worries down. They will still be there in the morning, so you don’t have to worry about them during the night.
‘If your mind is racing with everything you have to do tomorrow, make a list of things to be tackled the next day.’
20. Stay awake during the day
Being physically and/or mentally active during the day is one of the best ways of ensuring good sleep at night.
‘If you nap throughout the day, it is probably not surprising that you will not be able to sleep at night,’ says Dr Stanley. ‘If you are going to nap, a 20-minute nap mid-afternoon will help boost your mental performance.’
21. Go to bed when you are sleepy
‘If you are sleepy, then go to sleep. If you are not sleepy at bedtime, then do something else; read a book, listen to soft music etc.
‘Find something relaxing but not stimulating to take your mind off of worries about sleep.’
22. Quality is just as important as quantity
‘Your sleep must, as far as possible, be uninterrupted. So try to minimise those things that may disturb you.’
23. Think about your caffeine consumption
Sorry coffee lovers, but caffeine is a stimulant, and different people have different sensitivities to its effects.
‘For some people, even a small amount of caffeine early in the day is enough to cause problems falling asleep 10 to 12 hours later,’ says Dr Stanley.
‘Equally, there are people who have drunk two strong coffees every evening and have no problem sleeping. So if you have problems falling asleep or your sleep isn’t restful, it may be useful to avoid caffeinated drinks and see if your sleep improves.’
24. Exercise in the morning or early afternoon
‘However, do not exercise too close to bedtime and always ensure a proper wind-down after exercise in the evening.’
25. Don’t think of sleep as a chore
‘Good sleepers don’t do anything to get to sleep; they simply do it. Don’t over-complicate getting to sleep; remember, you cannot find sleep; you have to let sleep find you.’
26. Establish a regular bedtime schedule
Dr Stanley says having a wind-down routine or relaxing before bed can help – there are no hard and fast rules that will work for you.
‘Your bedtime routine should be easy to do and a pleasure, not a chore; whatever works for you is correct.
‘It does not matter if you have a few different routines that you use; the most important thing is that they are something that you want to do each night.’
27. Counting sheep can keep you awake
‘Recent research has shown that even something as simple as counting sheep can actually keep you from sleeping; counting engages the brain. Imagining a static, tranquil scene is more effective.’