Kerry from Big Brother has been chastised for how she handled a food-related debate with housemate Matty.
The meeting took occurred after Zak informed the 24-year-old doctor that Kerry had been discussing his eating habits.
Matty decided to confront Kerry, 40, about the matter.
‘Zak told me about a conversation he was involved in with you and Olivia, about my food consumption,’ he began while sat at the house’s dining table.
‘You had said when I was in the kitchen eating “Oh, do you notice how much food Matty eats?”‘
NHS Manager Kerry defended herself by responding with: ‘Zak was part of it so he’s s**t stirring.’
Matty then told Kerry he already knew about model Zak’s involvement and added: ‘But you need to realise how important your words can be because you might not understand everyone’s history with certain stuff like that at all.’
‘I am not going to stop talking to people and I don’t feel like I’ve always got to go up to them and them what I’m saying,’ replied Kerry.
‘I don’t think you’re hearing what I’m saying,’ Matty interjected.
Kerry then explained her position and attempted to soothe Matty.
‘I’m hearing what you are saying, but I think you are making a much bigger deal of this than what it is,’ she stated.
‘I’ve got no issue with what you eat, I genuinely think you are being really sensitive about it. And I’m sorry that it’s made you feel that way. I said I’m sorry.’
Kerry apologised again after Matty accused him of ‘dismissing’ his sentiments.
‘I’m really, really sorry. Look in my eyes, I’m really sorry. Someone is making this more of an issue than it is,’ she added.
After they finished talking, Kerry offered Matty a hug, which he respectfully rejected.
Some viewers were dissatisfied with Kerry’s handling of the problem, despite the fact that she had previously been chastised for using the word ‘gay’ in a derogatory manner.
‘I’m glad Matty confronted Kerry for gossiping about how much he eats! She was so defensive and rude, the gaslighting during her apology was wild,’ wrote one person.
I’m glad Matty confronted Kerry for gossiping about how much he eats! She was so defensive and rude, the gaslighting during her apology was wild 😩 #bbuk pic.twitter.com/miuIoG3zo0
— SHiiKANE (@Shiikane) October 19, 2023
After gaslighting Matty telling him he’s being sensitive Kerry wants a hug?! Typical Karen behaviour 😩😩😩 #bbuk pic.twitter.com/SMwIyNLqxs
— SHiiKANE (@Shiikane) October 19, 2023
https://twitter.com/Ellie09658473/status/1715109367672910082
Another added: ‘After gaslighting Matty telling him he’s being sensitive Kerry wants a hug?! Typical Karen behaviour.’
‘Matty having to explain to Kerry (a medical professional) that b******g about people’s eating habits is bad….. and it going straight over her head…… no words,’ fumed one viewer.
One person typed: ‘Kerry (who works for the NHS) basically dismissing Matty when he explained how harmful her comments about how much someone eats can be!!!!!! get this horrible horrible woman off my tv rn.’
Following the conversation, Kerry questioned 28-year-old model Zak about his decision to tell Matty. Zak then proceeded to talk with Matty, who dubbed Kerry a “mean girl” in tonight’s eviction.
Tom Quinn, Director of External Affairs at Beat, the UK’s premier charity for individuals affected by eating disorders, warned of the complications that might occur when discussing other people’s eating habits.
‘Pointing out a person’s eating behaviours can contribute to feelings of shame or guilt, which can worsen eating disorder behaviours if the person is already unwell, or contribute to an eating disorder developing,’ he explained.
‘It’s really important to be mindful when talking about food as it can be a very difficult topic for many.’
‘If you’re worried about somebody you know, asking open-ended questions such as ‘How are you feeling, is everything okay?’ will help people feel able to speak openly, rather than drawing attention to behaviours which can make people feel backed into a corner.
‘It’s also important to choose a time and place where you won’t be disturbed and to read about eating disorders beforehand to help you feel more informed.
‘Eating disorders affect 1.25 million people in the UK and we know that many people have complex relationships with food. It’s important that people are able to spot the signs and reach out to their GP if they’re worried about themselves or a loved one.’
If you’re worried about your own or someone else’s health, you can contact Beat, the UK’s eating disorder charity, 365 days a year on 0808 801 0677 or beateatingdisorders.org.uk
Big Brother continues tonight at 9pm on ITV2.